Relationships are complex, yet a vital part of who we are as social beings. We start small, surrounded by family and as we grow up, we meet new people and suddenly see ourselves in our 20s talking about someone's new boyfriend. This happened to me just this week over a manicure. I was with a friend I met 14 years ago that has a catalog of men that just did not work out. The question I have is: were their flaws too much to handle or was she? She is this gorgeous girl, lovely figure, smart and funny. Also stubborn and knows what she wants. But she has a type. The kind of men you can find in her long list are the ones who'd rather party it out than figure life out. The last one stopped working, handed her the financial burden of paying for nearly everything and ultimately cheated. After a bunch of changes, she finally managed to live on her own and found a sweet guy that can m...